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Darcy is socially awkward, reserved, possibly a Byronic hero but his existence is what strengthens my hopes of finding the ideal guy.
To be honest, this post draws inspiration from something I read a week back. Also, my almost-best-friend keeps telling me that I don't really know what I want in a guy, so here goes.
This "ideal guy"...
Must sing/be musically inclined.
Maybe its just me, but it is increasingly hard to find men who know the difference between Marilyn Manson and Marilyn Martin. Men with a flair for music are super sexy.
Must manage to give me those, uh, flying creatures that sit on flowers.
This statement is probably too generic but then again, not many men manage to do this. No matter how many relationships you've been or how very complex your definition of love is, you can never resist a guy who gives you "tingles in a silly place"
Must appreciate my singing.
Women, they gotta be pampered. Moreover, I'd like to know someone who actually cares about the things I care about. I may not be Christina freakin' Aguilera but I love what I love and he had got to respect that.
Should not be a servile flatterer or blessed with a Napoleon complex.
The ideal guy is an equal. Yes, women love obsessed, love-struck, puppy-faced lovers but nothing beats a guy who emerges as the perfect counterpart. Equality, both emotional and intellectual, is a must.
Should be someone I can look up to and possibly draw inspiration from.
Must be proud of who he is and where he comes from. Should never feel inadequate.
Nowadays, I see far too many people who're too concerned with what people think about them. I used to be that person, but that changed. I don't see the point in being ashamed of who you are, or where you come from. Being true to your roots is a must. I mean, you live life for yourself and its a sad life if all you're doing is trying to conform to societal notions of propriety.
Should be a breath of fresh air.
He should ideally have a good sense of humour, coupled with an unconventional perspective on life.
Should be a mystery.
This is probably the most significant characteristic. I don't want a guy who I can figure out in a week, much less, a day. He has got to be someone who bedazzles me and also just has a mystic air about him. Complex is cool. Complex is also interesting.
Should have his fair share of quirks.
Yeah, I need somebody with a human touch.
Must treat my quirks as his beloved friends.
Should be able to experiment with poetry, or any for of writing. Basically he should be expressive and eloquent.
"I would go for any singer who could condescend to linger awhile.
What a lullaby would be supplied to have a guy who takes his time"
Yes, "i'm a demon for slow motion"
Should know better than to give me a red rose.
Should be able to read me.
This is extremely challenging. Aman Singh probably knows me best. But, then again, he hardly knows anything.
Could have a huge ego. But one that holds no water against his love for me.
Should love to experiment.
Should appreciate "kul-tour", as the Germans say.
Should love his own culture. Should be interested in learning about others. Should ideally love the romantic era, German expressionist art.
Should be able to create and decrypt basic ciphers.
(This is totally Digital Fortress inspired. Dan Brown is a godsend)
Should know exactly what to do to when i'm upset/down/depressed.
Should have a concrete life goal or a dream that he can speak to. Something he's willing to fight for. Something he has the courage to see through, no matter what.
Should be open to spontaneous road trips to random getaways.
Shud nt tok lyk diz. Should be generally aware and have the ability to supply intellectual conversation. This criteria is EXTREMELY important for both me and my best friend :))
SHOULD GIFT ME A CUTE LITTLE DOG.
do that ^ and i will be your slave for life.
Should never ever ask me to change. He must accept my past for what it is. (mostly cause it is extremely twisted)
Should be my very own version of Mr. Darcy :)
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